I have really pushed for K to be moved ASAP for two reasons.
1. He has added a lot of stress to our house
2. He wants to live with them, not us
I know after he leaves and their honeymoon stage is over reality will set is BUT I think he will continue to enjoy them. Their family dynamic is different from ours is so he will get lots more attention there so that will be huge for him. He also will not have the dominating force of an older brother to compete with. His soon to be older sister thinks he is a doll she can dress up and he doesn't seem to mind. Kobe is all boy and with K being so little sometimes that doesn't work out so well.
Anyway, their lack of urgency to get him in their house had me mildly concerned. K would be devastated if they just "disappeared".
Well, they have signed more paper work, the "intent to adopt" paper among other things, and now we are all working to get him moved on June 9th, the day they are ALL finished with school.
On the phone, "new mom" finally acted excited about K coming to live with them and I finally felt the urgency for them to get their boy home. I almost cried while talking to her because such a wave of relief came over me. This is K's family!!!! I am so excited for him, he just adores them all and I am so thrilled to NOT have to ask that he be moved! I have fought so hard to not have to do that, to NOT have to add one more move to his list and I am so happy we are seeing him go to a home that will care VERY well for him!!! They might come across like arrogant people, but I do know they will love him and take good care of him.
I should add, "new mom" apologized on the phone for crabbing at me the other day, so I can't say they are all bad.
I am just excited. I think June 9th will be the day that K goes home for the final time, I am really excited to see this family together officially!